While this is a stressful time for many, this is also an opportunity to practice mindfulness and deep compassion for ourselves and our community. Food choices may be more emotional at this time as people look to food for comfort to lower anxiety and mitigate feelings of a loss of control. I hope some of these ideas for managing stress-eating will be helpful to you, and provide their own source of comfort.
- Try the H.A.L.T. method for emotional eating. When going to get something to eat, simply check-in to gauge what your real need is by asking yourself: “Am I Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired?” If you are hungry, eat some nourishing food. If you are angry (or stressed or anxious, etc.), do something to attend to that emotion such as journaling, meditation, diaphragmatic breathing, drawing/coloring (even adults can do this!), etc. If you are lonely, reach out to a friend or family member, and make regular social engagements a priority (virtually for now). If you are tired, rest, drink some water, do some mild stretching, or get some fresh air with a walk to replenish your energy. When we create more space between the thought of eating something to soothe our emotions and the actual consumption, we create awareness of our true need and increase the likelihood of doing something to attend to that actual need.
- Feed yourself well, and regularly. Low blood sugar exacerbates feelings of stress and anxiety. Make sure you are having regular meals that include adequate protein, healthy fat, and plenty of vegetables and some low-sugar fruit. Don’t go too long between meals, especially if you are prone to feeling anxious or stressed. Your brain and body need nutrients regularly throughout the day, and when we are missing key b-vitamins, fiber, minerals like magnesium, and probiotics, we can feel more amped up and have a harder time relaxing.
- Slow down your meals/snacks. Take a few deep breaths before eating and chew your food thoroughly. Eating this way engages the parasympathetic nervous system, and allows for better digestion, and greater benefit from the foods we eat. This practice also naturally moderates the amount and types of food our body actually needs, drastically reducing the need for ‘will power’.
- Keep non-nutritive “comfort” foods out of your home. Now is a great time to focus on the essentials and avoid foods that fill you up, but don’t actually nourish you. Try making warm broth-based soups, roasted root vegetables, baked pear or apple with cinnamon, and gluten-free whole grains or pseudo-grains like wild rice, quinoa, and buckwheat as part of your comfort foods instead of white flour-based foods or sugary desserts.
- Avoid stimulants that can irritate the nervous system and exacerbate anxiety: refined sugars, too much caffeine, dyes, additives, and artificial sweeteners can overstimulate the nervous system and can make it more difficult to experience a sense of calm.
- Make time with family or friends to enjoy meals together. If you live with others, take turns cooking and prepare the table where you will eat as a part of the meal to be enjoyed. Light candles, play relaxing music and have positive conversations as part of the meal. Avoid stressful conversations with meals, and if you live alone, invite friends to a virtual dinner party via computer or phone. You can enjoy each other’s company even when not in the same space.
- Practice gratitude. Consider the work that went into growing or raising your food, the incredible abundance of our planet, and the many people along the way from planting to delivery that work hard every day to keep you nourished. Gratitude keeps us focused on appreciation, which is a boost to our immune system and can significantly lower stress levels.
- Include intentional movement daily in some form. When we move, we are more in touch with our physical body and tend to choose healthier food options and drink more water. Additionally, exercise is immensely beneficial for lowering anxiety, improving our immune system’s resistance to pathogens, reducing stress, and encouraging sound sleep. While much of our lives may be more confined than we would like, we can still move every day. Some ideas include going for brisk walks/hikes in our neighborhood, taking dance classes online, doing weight resistant exercises with an app, or completing a regimen of yoga poses from books or instructional videos.
- Tap into your creative self or learn something new. Try a virtual class online, get out your paintbrushes and paper, do collage, sing, dance, write poetry or stories, learn a language (or re-learn one), play a musical instrument if you have one, sew, knit, etc. Creativity is a great way to express yourself and de-stress. When we are creative and feel ourselves expressed, we are using energy in a positive way, and tend to feel less restless. Decreasing feelings of restlessness can keep us from eating out of boredom.
- If you have the capacity and aren’t doing too much already, offer to help someone else. Volunteer in any way that is safe for you. Volunteer Match (www.volunteermatch.org) has thousands of opportunities, and you can do many of them virtually, or you can come up with your own way to help in your neighborhood. When we feel a sense of contribution and connection with our community, we tend to feel more in control and more grounded. This feeling is empowering and often leads us to take better care of ourselves (with food, movement, sleep, etc.), as we feel more important to those around us.
- Practice good sleep hygiene. Try to go to bed at the same time each night and limit foods at least 2 hours prior to sleep. Use blue-light protecting devices on computers, phones, or tablets if you need to use them in the hour prior to bed. Getting at least 7 hours of sleep regularly helps to regulate hunger hormones, improve energy, and increase our stress tolerance.
