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Thinking About Insomnia Is Making Me Lose Sleep

Updated on March 6, 2016 in Ask A Coach
16 on February 11, 2016

I have suffered insomnia all of my 59 years. I am newly retired from nursing children so shift work and raising 4 children was not easy.. My siblings and my mom did not sleep and my dad alcoholic.. 2 of my 4 children have insomnia and now grandchildren exhibiting signs of sleep issues!
Medically I have had numerous sleep studies with different readings normal with only a 2 min deep sleep in 8 hours, sleep apnea for which there is no treatment and so on. Sedatives have had some results but after awhile they stop working.
I have been followed now by a neurologist who has diagnosed familial primary insomnia for which there is no treatment!! I am on a cocktail of meds for 6 yrs since seeing him. I feel my memory fading and am trying to wean off the meds and have been somewhat successful.
Genetics have taken samples of blood from various family members!
If I could have spared one family member this outcome I am positive I would have not had children.
There is much alcoholism amongst my siblings and I have never turned to alcohol to treat the insomnia but have been able to see how this could happen!
I live in Canada and there are some sleep meds in the states that are not available here that are believed to be better suited for primary insomnia.
I have suffered a heart attack with no cause on findings!! I am sure related to years of NO sleep..
I am so hoping this message makes it to one of my coaches,
Thank you!

 
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1 on February 11, 2016

Wow Deborah. I am so sorry to hear about your chronic history of sleep deprivation. It’s great that you are still trying to find answers after hitting what seems to be so many dead ends. There are so many possible reasons for insomnia, and the underlying medical issues that may be at play should continue to be explored with a physician you trust, and if you haven’t found one you feel is really listening to you, keep looking! it’s a complicated task to understand what may be helpful for you. Here are some very basic ideas about sleep hygiene that may be worth continuing to explore and solidify in your life if you haven’t already.

  • Creating a bedtime ritual. Shutting off ALL electronic devices and dimming lights at least one hour prior to going to bed prepares the body for sleep. In addition you may consider taking a warm bath, listening to one of Dr. Amen’s meditation audios, and drinking a cup of warm herbal tea like chamomile. 
  • Sleep Friendly Nutrition. What we eat during the day is key to all of our body’s processes, including sleep. Eliminate the biggest culprits including caffeine, sugar, and refined flours, and do not eat anything at all at least 2-3 hours before sleep. You may consider getting tested for food allergies, which can influence sleep as well. Check out the Omni Diet, Tana Amen’s book, for more information on a whole foods’ diet that helps optimize our health, including sleep.
  • Exercise. Incorporating an exercise routine into your life can greatly help sleep, as long as you do not do high intensity exercise 2-3 hours before bed which can have the opposite effect! 
  • Journal. You may consider keeping a journal if you know that a “busy brain” is keeping you up at night. Writing down thoughts in free form gets them out of your body and can often lower stress internally, leaving you better prepared for rest.

Discovering your personal path to good, deep sleep may require more than these simple suggestions, so if you need more support, let us know!

on February 12, 2016

Journal great idea

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2 on February 12, 2016

I work for an eye care clinic and have recently been learning about the effects of blue light from electronics and compact fluorescent light bulbs can affect the body’s circadian rhythm- more and more people spend time on cell phones, tablets, laptops, desk tops, game consoles etc. and are having trouble unwinding.   So it is important to shut them down before bed.

on February 12, 2016

Thanks

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on February 12, 2016

That’s exactly right. There are covers you can get for your devices that will filter out the blue light known to effect sleep. Probably a good idea to have on our devices, even if we are good about stopping use hours before sleep!

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0 on February 12, 2016

Thank you for the response! Ottawa has limited physicians and certainly few that deal with insomnia!!
i have established a very good sleep pattern and seldome change it!
i am exhausted all of the time!! I remember one night approx 10 yrs ago when I slept drug free and woke up feeling like a 3 yr old with so much energy

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0 on February 12, 2016

i am going to see if Ivan get a scan done as I want to be drug free and be able to sleep

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3 on February 12, 2016

That’s a great idea Mcleese3! Certainly would be most helpful to know what is causing the insomnia so you can learn what to do to make it better! You know how great you can feel after a good night’s sleep, so imagine if that were consistent. It could be life changing!

on February 26, 2016

Yes it def would be life changing! I have been in touch with Dr Thornton in Toronto as I live in Canada but he has been unable to obtain the necessary isotopes to complete the scans for past 3 months and no light at the end of the tunnel.
I am so anxious to have this done so that I can have my brain diagnosed!!!
Any suggestions?
I have started the supplements and am doing breathing, meditation and hypnosis faithfully and have weaned off some of my meds but now I fall asleep at 930 and wake up at 11P.M. and cannot fall back to sleep

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on February 26, 2016

Without knowing the details of your nutritional profile, I would suggest using the powdered magnesium supplement CALM at night before bed. Start with a teaspoon in a cup of water, and increase to three teaspoons if needed. It tastes good, and helps to encourage a deeper night’s sleep. When I take it consistently, I don’t wake during the night, and I feel more rested in the morning.  

In addition to the list I posted above, I would also encourage you to eliminate all alcohol if you haven’t already. While initially it can make you feel relaxed, it keeps you from getting into a deeper state of sleep, and can result in waking throughout the night.

Wishing you good sleep!

Coach
on February 26, 2016

Also, if you haven’t already, try Restful Sleep caps 30-60 minutes prior to sleep. They have magnesium in them as well as melatonin, and can promote the same results in a capsule. Start with 1-2 at night, and increase to 4 caps as needed.

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2 on February 12, 2016

This subject is near and dear to my heart.  I spent 3 years with chronic insomnia after my acute attack of Hep C (which almost claimed my life, because my doctors couldn’t figure out why my liver and kidneys went into failure).  Don’t give up, Mcleese3…just don’t give up!  There are answers for you, and the right people and opportunities will come along to help put your sleep problems behind you!  It’s a complex puzzle, putting all the pieces of mind, body, emotions and spirit in place…but your life has a perfect image and they will all fit together eventually….don’t lose heart!

on February 12, 2016

Thanks Chellenor and I am so optimistic that I will find the answer

on February 29, 2016

Wow, Chellenor, I sure am glad you are a survivor and a thriver! You give encouragement to many of us 🙂

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0 on March 6, 2016

Update…. I have been sleeping almost pharmaceutical free with hypnosis and supplements for 2 weeks regular!!! I am so impressed and feeling so optimistic!! Brain fog … Gone… Have been able to set goals and achieve/surpass them in past 3 weeks…. Thank you thank you All for this site…

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0 on March 6, 2016

Your post just made me smile. Keep up the amazing work. Thanks to everyone who has supported this thread!!

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